Women like to rush into things and start planning the wedding of their dreams long before they find their beloved Prince Charming. It’s a bit different for men as they begin to think about just getting quiet once they find the perfect woman for them. So how do you know if he’s ready to marry or at least live together? There are certain signs that indicate that he is totally in love with you and can not think of anyone else next to him. Men are not very good at talking about their emotions, but what they are good at is acting on it. Here are 12 signs that your boyfriend wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
He’s planning his life around you.
You do not give up on distant jobs just because a woman is a good cook. If he is trying to get as close to you as possible, it is a sure sign that he wants you to be in his life forever. If you were not living together, he probably already started talking about it. The more serious he talks about you, the better!
He talks more about ‘us’ than ‘me’
When a man talks about you doing things together as a couple, it’s a clear sign that he sees them spending a lot of time together. In fact, he’s probably thinking about spending the rest of his life with you! That means he sees you both as a single entity and your single days are behind. It’s one of the best signs of all time! He does not mind spending time at home together It’s nice when you can have fun with your boyfriend, but what really matters is when you two can get together at home and still have good times. You may not live together yet, but you’ve taken some things to his apartment and enjoy each other’s company while shopping, cooking, and watching movies.
He is with you even when things are not going so well.
If your man is not afraid to be around when you hit the bottom of the pit, it is a sure sign that he values you more than anything. It’s easy to be together when all is well, but going through the bad stages requires a lot of attention and dedication. That means you two can overcome any problem together, and that is more than any of us could ask for. You buy something together Whether it’s a dog, an electronic gadget or a new home, buying things together and sharing responsibilities means you’re in the relationship for a long time. First you raise a dog and then, who knows, maybe you also have children?
You are part of his family
If you have reached that phase of relationships when you are expected to appear at his family meetings, you are doing something right. We often miss the moment when we have basically become part of the family, overcoming the embarrassment of meeting your mother and father on special occasions. Hey, now you probably find them to have fun together, just like you do with your own family!
You share hobbies
Some people say that opposites attract, but in the long run it is best that the two share at least some hobbies together. It’s great fun when you can watch movies, do yoga, enjoy photography and maybe even work together on some creative project! Common interests bring people closer to each other, so if he likes the things you love – you will live together very well!
He is struggling to become part of your family
You may have made friends with his relatives, but this does not mean anything if he is not doing the same to his parents and siblings. If your boyfriend keeps in touch with his family and likes to talk to his father about some sporting event, it’s a sure sign that he loves you and wants to be part of your life for years to come. He likes to surprise you (yet!)
No matter if it’s been six months or a few years, he’s still trying to surprise you and bring a smile to your face. Routine can be devastating for relationships, so it’s important to keep things fresh and never forget the intimacy and romance that brought you together. That’s why he strives to plan exciting encounters and breathtaking getaways for you!
He talks about having children
A guy talks about having children only if you are 100% sure that you want to spend the rest of your life with you. Otherwise, he would not feel free to talk about it! It does not matter if he does this by joking or if he spends an entire meeting talking about what it would be like to live together and start a family, conversations like this take one step closer to the relationship that every woman dreams of.
You live together
It is always good to live together for some time before you get married or just realize that you can not live without the other. So if you’ve already entered that phase of your relationship – congratulations! This means that you are one step closer to spending your whole life along with it (or at least understand if it is the person for you or not). If it was he who got the idea of living together, it’s a sure sign that he thinks you’re the one to him!
He wants you to be happy
Vague as it may seem, thinking of someone else’s happiness is one of the most vivid demonstrations of love and affection. If he likes to talk about his well-being and long-term life goals, you can rest assured that he is planning to spend as much time as possible with you. Guys do not play with these things!